by Andrew Le Page opened the strict Star Tasha Ghouri about her separation and explains that she “learned so much from him” and that he was her “first love”, she “didn’t really know” deep inside.
In his podcast How To Be Love with Rylan Clark, the 26-year-old, who was the first deaf candidate of Love Island, spoke to appear at the dance competition during her time.
“It looked like he supported me on social media, but he wasn’t emotionally at home,” she said.
“I remember that I was once in the dance in the semi -finals. I called him and said I felt really nervous. He was just sitting there to play. Not stopped playing, did not take off his console, abolished his headphones and said ‘Talk to me’.”
While they stayed together during the Christmas season, the couple, who met in the series of Love Island 2022 in January this year, met before Le Page confirmed the news in February.
“My head was still there, but my heart had been left for a long time. I think I have chosen emotionally for a while,” she admitted, adding that she “had the feeling that I would break all hearts, not only his”, in view of the “invested” fans in her relationship, after seeing it in the early stages.
When it comes to regret, Ghouri told the celebrity -Gogglebox star: “I should have been so much nicer than me. No matter whether she treated you in a bad way or did something bad, there is still a heart. I really regret how I broke up with him.”
So is there a way to separate yourself with someone? Yahoo UK spoke to experts to find out.
How to put you gently with someone
1. Be honest and direct – but also compassionate
“Communication is the key here,” says Debbie Keenan, Bacp therapist. “Do not let them guess or make assumptions – that would not be fair. Remember: art, but firm.”
Similarly, Clare Patterson, the BACP accredited therapist, emphasizes that clarity is clear. She says: “Give a final” yes “or” no “to be in the relationship. If it is a” no “, do not leave things open by saying things like” change things later “or” let us take a break “. If you no longer want the relationship, say it.
2. Do not break through text with you
Keenan adds that a text could encounter cold. “Instead, meet in a neutral environment where both parties can feel comfortable with their surroundings,” she advises.
3. Be aware of your approach
Although it can be easy to stay with the negatives, Keenan states. “Take a look at what was positive in the relationship.”
4. Set boundaries
“Do not promise anything that you cannot keep. Here, too, you have to take your feelings and feelings into account,” emphasizes Keenan.
Patterson adds: “If there are joint agreements or agreements, express how you see these functions. Show that you have considered the other person and that you are still ready to maintain your obligations. If there are things that you can no longer do, you should also make it clear.”
5. Hear actively what you say in the answer
“Give them the room to process what was told to you,” says Keenan.
6. Leave it to make it personally
“Pass or do not try to flatter by being to Complementary – but don’t be unfriendly by pointing out what you think is “wrong” with the other person and the relationship, “advises Patterson.
7. Take responsibility
After all, Patterson recommends owning her own misconduct and mistakes. “If the end of the relationship is your choice, it is important to take on this. Use sentences with ‘i’. For example” I see myself going in a different direction, I don’t see that … etc. “
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